Growing to be an entrepreneur is one of the most exhilarating and fulfilling decisions which you will ever make. You can literally take an idea and then turn it into a thriving business model, while (hopefully) having a positive impact on the world around you.
However, this isn’t to say that choosing to be an entrepreneur means taking the simple path — quite the opposite. The day-to-day grind of forming and operating your own business can be overpowering to the point that many budding entrepreneurs throw in the towel altogether.
If you’re an entrepreneur, you by now know what it’s like. You probably become caught up in a seemingly endless web of to-do lists on a day-to-day basis. To make matters worse, you are the one in charge. It might sound like a dream come true, at first, however taking the driver’s seat also means taking responsibility for the success (or failure) of the organisation, and that you hold the financial well-being of yourself and your employees in the palm of your hands. That’s a lot of pressure for any individual to take on.
Your employees will look to you for guidance so if you present a negative outlook they will start to get nervous. This means that you need to remain positive – no matter what. Here are a couple of tips to help you remain positive.
Pinpointing Negative Thinking
Are you perhaps not sure if your self-talk is positive or negative? Some common forms of negative self-talk include the following:
- You amplify the negative aspects of a situation and then filter out all of the positive ones. For instance, you had a great day at work. You finished your tasks ahead of time and were complimented for doing a speedy as well as thorough job. That evening, you concentrate only on your plan to do even more tasks and ignore about the compliments that you received.
- When something bad takes place, you automatically blame yourself. For instance, you hear that an evening out with friends is cancelled and you make the assumption that the change in plans is because none of your friends wanted to be around you.
- You automatically expect the worst. If the drive-through coffee shop gets your order wrong and you inevitably think that the rest of your day will be a catastrophe.
- You see things only as either good or bad. There is no middle ground. You feel that you have to be perfect or you’re a total failure.